There comes a point that you have to just separate yourself from these kind of children emotionally. Just know that you did the best you can, and the rest is up to them. There comes an age where you cannot control anything they do and they live thier own lives. If they insist on playing games and bothering you about thier troubles, or abusing you and your husband then it is time to simply cut off all contact. There is no sense driving yourself insane over what they are doing with thier lives. Many of us have had to make that choice here |