Shadow,
I do not now the answer.
Unless they decide to change and we stop reacting to the rages and ill behavior
it will continue.
It is hard for me to know
if I am dealing with mental illness or a hateful adult child. Maybe they are one
in the same. I am here to find out.
I do love my son but have
put a emotional wall between he and I. I treat him as a compassionate friend
would. I also walk away when he gets demanding and
abusive.
I have told him that I am
a good person, an adult woman and I will not tolerate his verbal abuse. I then
hang the phone up or ask him to leave or house.
I was an abused child and
I have recently taken the last of abuse from anyone. I not only deserve respect,
I demand it! :)
Hugs,
Grammycake
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May
your troubles be less,
your blessings be more
and nothing but
happiness
come through your door!