My x-son was the same way. He would set me up for abuse, blame me for things I didn't do, constantly rage at me, put me down, . . . . etc. etc. etc. I finally had to totally cut contact 7 years ago (he was 31 then).
In the past 7 years . . I have made many friends, do interesting things, am enjoying my life as much as anyone can, have gone through a nightmare like this.
I am sure . . if I had kept contact, I would have been reduced to a mumbling, shriveling, pathetic women.
I know in my heart I did the right thing. He is crazy, and No Contact (for me) was the only way. If I stayed he would haved dragged me down with him. . . . and there is no lifting him up (to be normal). It's just an impossibility. |
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