my 14 yr old p/n son has been talking to me in such a shameful way, for so long  be cause we  were trying 'the ignore it and it won't be fun for him anymore bit. it didn't work and we were so worn down it just (can you believe ?!) became normal. not today.he was given his choice follow the rule be respectful or get the____ out. his mouth was that bad, plus today he brandished a studded belt at me and said move or else and he picked up a broom a few minutes later and told me that i had 5 seconds to get out of his way. he was mad because i insisted he fork over the belt that he implied he'd use on me.God is the King-i didn't yell once i just navigated my way through a very familiar situation. my husband let him know in VERY simple terms what the rules are:1. follow instructions 2. use his mouth respectfully. i guess he forgot because he tested me with more shameful talk to me. i slapped the snot out of him. you'd have thought martians had landed right ther in the livivg room. i'm not recomending this-y'all do what works or keep looking for something that does,God bles us all. if he doesn't/can't love us fine, but he he canmemorize what certain words bring for him. today was his warning. tomorrow if he so much as stands in my way on purpose i'm calling 911 belrose777