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From: XtraMSN NicknamejoanaV9  (Original Message)Sent: 20/08/2008 10:02 p.m.
I've been a member of this group for several months but have not had the courage until now, to post anything. I joined the group to try and understand my daughter and her behavior. Like the member that titled her story "and the mask fell", I came to the realization that I was seeing the real side of my daughter for the first time in July of last year. At that time I unmasked her by confronting her about the double life she had been leading. In response to her being unmasked, she called CPS and made false accusations against me and my husband. She played the victim and blamed us for all her bad behavior and put us through hell. I broke all contact with her at that time and have remained estranged from her. My daughter moved in with my mother and had been living there with her boyfriend until just a week ago when my mother finally saw her for what she really is. After stealing from, lying to, and physically abusing my mother, she and her boyfriend were finally arrested this morning for elder abuse. I've decided to post today for the first time because only someone who has dealt with a sociopath/psychopath can understand the hatred that they can inspire. None of my friends could ever understand how I can feel joy at seeing my daughter and her boyfriend arrested. They assume that because she is my flesh and blood, I should feel pity for her but I don't because she is not the child I raised. She has become someone I don't know at all and can't understand. I am nothing but ecstatic that maybe justice will keep this monster from destroying anyone else's life.
 
Joana


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From: XtraMSN NicknameKatilac39Sent: 25/08/2008 2:32 a.m.
Joana
I understand... all too well! My son has been in the court ordered program for 2 months and just now decides to call CPS on us AGAIN. Two months where everything SEEMED to be going much smoother. Up until he realized I wasn't budging on my rules. He wants to come back in to my house he has the same rules as before. He didn't like that AT ALL. SO..... Same charges as the last three times, and the last three times were closed and labeled unfounded. I've had it. I pressed charges on him Friday for false charges and playing with the system. It's a felony. I'm done playing around. My 7 year old was visited by CPS this time on his FIRST day of second grade! I'm so mad I'm spitting nails! Now his new teacher that doesn't know us is watching him like a hawk, and asking him questions that upset him on a daily basis!

So yes, when he is arrested for these ADULT charges, and put in something other than kiddie jail where everyone thinks he's so charming and just misunderstood. But instead put in with others just like him that aren't going to buy his BS I will rejoice. He deserves what he gets. He has no thought or feelings for anyone else. And I think he just might have burned the last remaining good feelings I had for him.

If we could I'd take you out for coffee, and hug the stuffin out of ya! LOL Nope, you are not alone. But most of the 'normals' (people that have never had to deal with anything like this) will not understand your feelings, and will more than likely look down on you for them. Let them! It's only ignorance that causes this reaction, and to be honest I wish I were so blissfully ignorant as they are.

*sigh* But alas we can't be anymore. But take comfort in the fact that I said WE can't be. Not just you!

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamebelrose777Sent: 28/08/2008 7:44 p.m.
k39,
       can you put your son with another teacher for his comfort and have the principal put a gag order on his current teacher-belrose777

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamemaligned1000Sent: 2/09/2008 5:39 p.m.
Joana,
What joy there is in someone else seeing the psychopath's true colors!!  Not out of revenge, but just to be understood!  It is so nice to know their mind games aren't working anymore with your relatives.  I think people who love TRUTH will not defend habitual liars, even if it is their flesh and blood.

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamepandora721Sent: 23/09/2008 7:28 a.m.
Hi joana.pleased to meet you.
 
Its kids like ours that make the lawyers so rich! We all walk in the same shoes here....its not nice but it does get comforting to know we are not alone. I wouldn't wish my situation on my worst enemy......as Ps say..nothing lasts forever, we have to learn and read and learn and protect ourselves. we are allowed a life too.

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