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From: XtraMSN Nicknamesilvrhawk  (Original Message)Sent: 20/10/2008 12:46 a.m.
Well we go to court tomorrow. I have decided and WILL do the right thing for myself and husband. I will tell the judge I am sorry for wasting his time and I want to ALL ties to our son. I was going to try to reconsile but we have tried over and over and over...... with the only result of my having a nurvous breakdown. I suffer from Post Traumatic Distress, abused from the time I was born and have cut ties from my mother who I have not heard from in over 15yrs. I know I said in my last letter that I can't handle anymore of this. I want to live a normal life, or at least figure our what a normal life is. I have been married 3 times (my 3rd husband is wonderful). The other 2 was very abusive in all since of the word. I have a son by my 2nd husband who is close to me dispite his birth father was a psycho. I finally cut ties with that husband. He had so much emotional hold on me. I may be repeating myself but I really do need input to make myself know I will be ok and doing the right thing. I feel I need to do this and I know it will be hard but he has used me and hurt me so long and so bad. I am getting counceling and in this last yr of having a restaining order on my son I have finally come to terms with his abuse and gotten relaxed. Now I am having to deal with this. I have been having panic attacks this past month and more as the court date comes up. I will let you know how it goes.


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From: XtraMSN NicknamesilvrhawkSent: 23/10/2008 8:13 p.m.
I did it , I went to court and guess what D did not show. I took my seat when my name was called. the judge called my name. I asked the judge to cut the binds and he upheld the restraining order.I also asked what do I need to do as far as small claims court. He sent me to the right room and with me good luck.I wish I know how to divorce him from our lives. He only contacted us because he wanted something. owes us over 5.000 and he needs to be held accountable. I am so tired and drained rieght now. Bless you all for having this group. hawk

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From: XtraMSN NicknamesilvrhawkSent: 25/10/2008 7:48 a.m.
It has been a week since the court date and I have been crying and sleeping until today. My former son IM'd me today and asked what the judge said he also said he thought it was for the 21st. I told him he knew when it was, he never showed so he is no longer a part of our lives. I am sick and tired of all the lies and stealing. Do not contact us until  he gets help.I then blocked all his contact to our emails and IM's.

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From: XtraMSN NicknamefemfreeSent: 25/10/2008 2:09 p.m.
Good for you!
 
I'm sorry for the horrible situation you are living with.
 
You are strong and taking those steps which nobody should ever have to but are essential for us.
 
I'm so proud of you.

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