Hi Tough,

 

I was seeing a psychologist for parenting advise for my Pson.  She refused point blank to see him but diagnosed (unbeknown to me), me with munchousans by proxy.  She also diagnosed him with an attatchment disorder. 

 

The way she had us deal with him was to show him lots and lots of love, explain our feelings and how hurt we were etc etc.  Well we all know that treating a P like that is giving them bate to use it against us. 

 

Obviously, this didnt work and she just said we werent doing it correctly.  End of.

 

Eventually, last year following a 6 month psychiatric assessment we got a diagnosis.  All those years of feeding my Psons ego cos some stupid pyschologist refused to see him or acknowledge that her diagnosis was wrong.

 

Kazza