My problem is that my ex husband holds the cards to alot due to the fact that we got joint custody but he got primary in the battle. He believes that this therapist is doing right and there is no need to change and therefore wont. My goal is to do the best i can in this situation and just hope for the best. My son is so good when he wants to be or i should say when he wants something and almost (hate to say it) evil when he doesnt. Does it ever get better? By the other stories it doesnt sound like it but i am hoping everyday because he is so smart( made honor role) despite getting suspended for graffiting the school walls.