Thanks, Dancer
I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter and that things are as bad as they are.
I'm still hopeful, as you've probably gathered, but I can see myself getting to the point of no contact with my son as well. Even on his good days, he is completely draining. I feel my tolerance to the stress he brings decreases the longer he is away. I need to recouperate after his visits.
Take care and thanks.