| Hello...Yes, I know the shock of realizing your child has a personality disorder that you are not able to fix.  The effort, the guilt, the worry...nothing seems to work.  I have been back and forth so many times with my beautiful child, but nothing ever changes.  She continues to be hostile with me and my sibs/families; claims my husband is ok, wonderful and loving.  She has decided how we have to behave in order to have a relationship with her and our grandchild.  It just doesnt work.  Have had no contact for several months and I suspect it will remain that way for a long time to come.  It is hard for us as we lost a daughter to BC and now the other daughter to N.  We pray, hope, and keep busy doing positive things for others and ourselves.  My thoughts are with you and I hope to hear from you again.  JubileeKat |