Hello...Yes, I know the shock of realizing your child has a personality disorder that you are not able to fix. The effort, the guilt, the worry...nothing seems to work. I have been back and forth so many times with my beautiful child, but nothing ever changes. She continues to be hostile with me and my sibs/families; claims my husband is ok, wonderful and loving. She has decided how we have to behave in order to have a relationship with her and our grandchild. It just doesnt work. Have had no contact for several months and I suspect it will remain that way for a long time to come. It is hard for us as we lost a daughter to BC and now the other daughter to N. We pray, hope, and keep busy doing positive things for others and ourselves. My thoughts are with you and I hope to hear from you again. JubileeKat |