I have spend about 1.5 years looking over and posting on the Psychopath site, writing about XHP. I clearly know that I married and now divorced a P. Now my worst fears have come home.........genetics. My 15 yr old daughter. I feel that she is now totally unmasked. I know that the true diagnosis cannot take place till they are 18 years old.

My daughter has told me repeatedly that she wanted to be adopted or go into a Foster home (however, she wanted to go into a foster home of a wealthy family). She has been verbally abusing me for over 1 year. She lies constantly and her grades have gone down terribly...getting Fs and Ds. She hides everything and lies. She defies school athorities.

It got so bad last February........we were fighting. She actually attacked me and fisted me about 5 times. I did not call police as I should have. I called CPS, we already had a case with them. We had a case because I took her to the police station last May and just dropped her off. I could not take it any longer.

Back to last February....she told me that she was not going to listen to me any longer. We were having a fight over a cell phone. I asked her to give me the cell phone back (my phone), she had run up a large bill. She said she would not and continued to lock horns with me. She has insisted in getting her way, wanting to stay out all the time and not wanting me to know who she is with etc.

Long story short, I did the societal NO NO.....I pulled her hair and sctratched up her arms.......my anger has gotten to the brick with this kid, especially what I already went thru with her father. She drummed up charges against me to Child Protective services stating that I slugged her multiple times in the face and many many other lies. I was arrested as she secretly called the police (on the cell phone). She is now in a foster home.......they also took my 12 year old son, whom I have nothing but a loving relationship with. I am now going thru HELL trying to get my son back. I have to go into counseling, take a 730 Psych evaluation and go to parenting classes..........nothing at all about what she did to me or has been doing........

Any one out there dealt with CPS..........I am getting the full brunt of this whole thing, I have visited a website called fightCPS.com...........the dark side of Child Protective Services............I am involved with the Children's court which has "The French Justice System". Tis brave new world, cannot lay a hand on your child,,,,,,,,,that is not the way that I was raised.........doesn't that just give more power to a child like this. I am concerned that she may be developing Anti-social PD. (Her father is a psychopath). He has been called in on the case.........again with the P in the court system. I have not stated everything about my daughter, she has been posting sexually explicit things on MySpace. I found out, unfortunately I let her know. Her and her foster mother did major damage control regarding this. I was able to download all these nasty photos and send them to my lawyer before she set her account to private..........

Info would be appreciated on: can you tell at 15?? lying to authorities (she delighted in the fact that her mother was arrested). I am trying to get my son back,,,,,,,if she is truly developing APD, I cannot handle it...........she will destroy everyone in her path..........like her Dad.

 

Thanks,

 

Vera206