Many people have been abused and are messed up, but not evil. My daughter spent the first five years of her life in a miserable orphanage. Of course I expect her to have problems. But the thing I will NOT accept from her anymore is the absolute evil bent of her mind. I refuse to blame myself for that. She lives to hurt other people. She has a small build so fortunately she can't physically hurt most adults, but I have seen the most hateful, stone cold glare in her eyes that I have ever seen in a human and I know she would kill if she could. This is the only forum where I can express this with others who know exactly what I mean. Even some good friends of mine think I have failed miserably raising this child, or I am being a drama queen about her problems.
She recently set out to destroy her brother with a false accusation which shocked her sisters so much that they see that I'm telling the truth. Add that to some other stunts she pulled in recent years and at least my immediate family is on board with this.
She was raised in a good home with a solid marriage and a wonderful dad. He died a few years ago and I am now married to a wonderful man who would have been happy to be a good stepdad to her. Her behavior started way before her father died, by the way. There are people who try to make excuses for her with that.
Everyone thinks there are psychopaths in the world and yet when they run into one or know someone who has they don't believe it until a disaster happens. We can't wait for that.
I haven't put my daughter out yet because she isn't 18. I live for the day, but I know it will be one of the worst days in my life, even though I'm saving enough money for her to get a start somewhere. If she won't get her lazy self a job, too bad.
I'm also sick of the looks of accusation and superiority from other people about this issue. What I love is when I'm asked if she is my only teenager. I have raised three other kids to adulthood, thank-you and I know what is NORMAL and what isn't NORMAL teenage behavior! Sorry, but that one always irritates me.
Thanks for writing and I hope your day is a wonderful one.
Suzanne
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Subject: Re: Just found this site
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From: twinkletoes678
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Hi suzanne and welcome. P here is my biological daughter but I have come to the
same conclusions re her as you have with your daughter......and I wonder how we
can have one twisted kid and the rest of the family are normal.
I stuck by my daughter and supported her through thick and thin, tried to reason
with her when she was doing something wrong.....but she was a good actress too
and even fooled me that things were ok... I.blamed myself, blamed her
friends.......blamed everybody but now I know she is what she is and there is
nothing I can do about it.
I do believe these people have a choice.they know the difference between right
and wrong cos we taught them..they choose to behave as they do..but then I
suppose aswell that it would be as alien behaviour for me to be as my daughter
is as it would be for her to behave as I do. we all are what we are..thankfully
its the minority that are twisted.
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