Hello there
Like everyone one else here - I've been there too
I don't know what the outcomes of all the different stories will be - but I can add emphasis to what other people have said
Don't try and interact in her games
Walk away
If she walks away - don't follow her
Turn you face away and ignore black looks and refuse to argue
If she walks out and doesn't come back - wait 24 hours before calling the police - although you may have to notify them in some places - I'm not 100% sure of that
And I know the Jekyll and Hyde profile - people think she's an angel yeah? and butter won't melt in her mouth (whatever that means)
I know this can be a battle to the death - but all you can do is to play it cool and walk away - drive away without looking - who cares if she has to walk 10 miles to a phone - she's begging for it
The less you interact - the less she is in charge, the less power she has - which will enrage her - but that's her problem.
Twink - do we have any notes in the sides boards about "Whose Problem it is"?
Sparky