Hi Kat, wool eyes are children, never!! Ive had this problem since my daughter was 4 & wanted her assessed for mental health problems after she killed a kitten due to problems running in the family maybe my eyes where open much sooner than most, & yet at 12 although still young her problems are getting worse & worse, yet still when she tells them shes sorry & wont do it again they all believe her, although now i don't, & wont again, I don't understand how they can make u live with him till hes 19 if he is putting you at risk, id go & see a lawyer about this & also complain about his probation officer Harriet |