hi kat You are coping with major trauma and probably have stress from years of coping with this child my heart goes out to you. For boys with this disorder it must be hell as they get so violent. My daughter was the other way very sneaky and tried to get me to think i was the mad one. No one believes you and it feels so lonely. I used to get real mad and after we had had one or two really serious arguments and I felt I was seriously going to lose control and do something I regretted I kicked her out age 16. Now I am the bad one because I did this but actually it is best thing I ever did. For her and me. |