How To Attract Our Desires
A thing that is hard for us to accept when we are thinking of improving our lives, is that we are the cause of where our lives are at this moment in time. Often times we think that our life situations are the culmination of years and years worth of thoughts, emotions, and experiences, which is true. However when we reflect on our lives in those terms, we usually miss the fact that we were responsible for every single moment in our life, all the way to this current time.
Sometimes it may seem that there has been many people, circumstances and events in our lives that were out of control, although that is simply not the case. When we embrace the truth about the Law of Attraction, we must embrace the ENTIRE truth. The entire truth is that we attract all things into our lives, the good, the bad, and the in-different. Each person will have their own story of how this concept has manifested in their lives, but usually it follows three common concepts.
Relationships
This is the area most common where people attract exactly what they are looking for, but are very often blind to the fact that they have done so. I know it is a hard thing to swallow when we find ourselves in abusive relationships, to think that somehow that is what we wanted. It is difficult to believe that if our significant other has been unfaithful, that we somehow played a part in making it happen. It is hard to accept the fact that we cannot find the right person, because on some level we either didn’t really want to, or most commonly, we don’t even know who the right person is.
Career
This is a common area that most will relate to. How many times do we find ourselves in careers that we don’t enjoy, or are not getting everything out of it that we think we should. The complaints could be the fact that we do not like our job, or maybe we are not making enough money, or simply we do not get along with our co-workers. Whatever the issue is, on some level we are holding onto that situation, and are attracting the very things that we do not want in our professional lives.
Health
If we are unhealthy or overweight, many times it is because we believe that we are SUPPOSED to be that way, Maybe our family members were like that, so it is only proper to think that somehow that is our destiny also. On an energetic level we are sending out vibrations of I am sick, or that I weigh too much, or I am weak. It may also be that we think that we don’t deserve to live a long and healthy life. It could be that our self esteem is not where it should be.
Each of these situations have their own solutions, as far as how to stop attracting those things that we do not desire. But the bottom line is, and pay close attention to this statement; “The First Step is to Realize that WE are attracting what we do not want.�?And for most people that is a hard pill to swallow.
Some steps in turning around these problems in our lives, after we realize that we are the root cause of them is to start changing our mindset. If we want a long term, successful relationship full of love and compassion, then we need to start expressing the same emotions to others, even to those that we have no interest in developing a relationship with.
If we desire a high paying dream job, then we need to start acting like an employee who deserves that type of job. If our life is lacking in health and fitness, we need to start eating healthy, exercising and thinking positive thoughts about ourselves, and then our bodies will respond and transform automatically as a result.
Lets all make a vow to stop complaining about the things that our Life is Not, and start becoming the person who deserves the kind of life that we desire, and before you know it�?The Universe will present it to us. Take Care my friends.