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| | From: 鈥燭her脿 | Sent: 9/2/2006 4:09 PM |
Well, I have been victim of the net a few times, because, I am just me, a genuine person, I do have very good intuition, even over the net, but the odd time one sneeks in under the wire or my takes over..............It hurts just as much as in person, because I put everything in friendship no matter where I am. Why do people behave a certain way only to get your attention & then walk away. I do hold back in my feelings as protecting myself, but that is only fooling them & not myself, cause I just can not care...If they seem perfect, be very carefull..........Don't just believe everything they say & accept them for their word, until you get to know them better. Just because someone can spell & type the word friendship, doesn't mean they know anythink about friendship...........It is becoming a sad world that you have to take such safe guards. But as a person who was one of those people, used to call them trophy hunters of the heart!! How ironic he was actually one of them himself........Also not just opposite sex you have to be unguard with ya know......... Ok, that my input for now.............. |
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My warning to anyone that is doing this "cyber love " make damn sure that you know who you are talking to and dealing with before you commit yourself to this person... Remember, the hardest thing about lying, is there is too much to remember. So, watch what they say... and how they say it..and remember the details..That is the best safeguard you can use..in my opinion.. |
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The first meeting after spending some time on the internet chatting, usually involves some expense if 2 people live at some distance from one another... I think it is fair if both people pay half for travel expenses (airfare, bus ticket, gas for own vehicle and etc.) and for the amount of days you have booked a room. I think the person travelling should be in receipt of the other person's half BEFORE they ever purchase a ticket or book a room.... I've heard some real horror stories and they are NOT funny by any stretch of the imagination... In one case, I had a girlfriend who saved up just enough to fly to Los Angeles... so on the assurance of her cyber-mate, she purchased a one way ticket and flew there... She stayed in the airport for almost 48 hours.. he never DID show up and she had to borrow money from her family to get home... I know other people who have agreed, "well I'll stay in a room at your place and in exchange for that, I will buy my travel ticket".... They get there and he is all over her from the time she gets through the door with NO intention of letting her stay in a room in his house or apartment while they get to know one another... I have other thoughts on this subject but this is one of them.... Oy... money matters... they may be hard to discuss when you're being romantic with someone but... they are necessary... Silken |
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