Did you post a photo in an album Wendy?

 

I don't see one attached to your post. I would love to take a look however.

 

BTW welcome to S.K.

hi jody hun, i am new here and am not sure how to go about this, i just attatached the pic with the post hun, plz tell me how i can do this so you can all see it.

thanks xxx

retry at sending the pic of my daughter

  Hi Wendy, you can do it two ways. You can go here Pictures  to our photo albums, and start an album then take it from there or you can pull it from your files.

 

When you open a reply box, you will be given options. Find the box that looks like a yellow box with a mountain. Click that. Then a window will open up that directs you to where you can pull your pictures from. Your computer or "my online photo's" which would be from groups etc.....Then after you choose that, then a box will open that let's you browse your files to find the picture you want. Choose your picture-click on it- then "open" -then "add photo's. Your picture should then appear on your post. Or you can also do all that through an attachment, but I recommend just putting it right on your post. Some people don't like to open attachments.

 

I hope you can understand my ramblings. Good luck!!

 

-J

OK you got it without me. :) 

 

I'll take a look

my pop up stopper is blocking this hun, im haveing to press ctrl to get my stuff to come through, il look into it and see if i can allow it somehow. thankyou for your help jodie xxx

  Oh Wendy, she looks so sad :( She's an Indigo child no doubt. I feel like she's sad alot and feels misunderstood, and that's not against you, not at all. You love your daughter desperately. I am just going on what I feel from her. And kids her age feel that alot from any parent. Indigo children are prone to these feelings. Call them super sensitive kids. She at the age when she's got alot coming at her, and she's having a hard time coping. So the way for them to cope is to retreat into themselves. It's where they connect and heal. I'm an early Indigo, so I know very well. She'll come into her own soon. Does she have psychic experiences as well? She's such a beautiful child Wendy

 

 I hope I didn't overstep my bounds here. I just connected with her picture immediately, and rolled with it.

I hope you enjoy S.K. Wendy and again welcome

Peacefully

 

-J

 

 

It came through as an attachment on post # 4 Wendy. It's all good

i think youve hit the nail right on the head jodie, she does absorb others feelings and pain, she mothers everyone no matter what the circumstances, she is very deep at times but talks to me openly thankgod .however saying that we do clash from time to time because she reminds me so much of myself when i was younger and i try to steer her away from the hurt that is often caused by being this way, but her answer to me is, you had to learn for yourself, plz allow me to do the same. not much argument their i guess, just being a protective mam i suppose. we are very close, as i am with all of my children but they are all totally different, she resents the fact i worry so much about her when my eldest daughter is much stronger and carefree, but theres no aminosity between them.

and yes, she does have psychic experiences, this has been happening for around two yrs, they started with dreams but now she has a little spirit boy who comes to her that she has quickly learned not to fear.

thankyou so much for taking the time jodie, i appreciate it hun xxx

Hey Wendy :)

 

I take that back. I no longer think Indigo. I think she might be more Crystal. Indigo's are more selfish than who you describe ;) but very wise, sensitive, deep souls.  She's lucky to have you as a mom My daughter Devin is also a crystal, (she just turned 12 in December) so I know how it is to

 mother such a child. They get so hard on themselves. I don't know about your daughter but Dev is a perfectionist. No, not about things like keeping her room perfect, but about personal goals, and never, and I mean never screwing up. That

really messes with her. Oh man you should have seen last nights Volleyball game. Dev really wasn't in her game to start, and after about her third mess up

 (in her eyes) a  pretty easy shot, and literally fell on her butt. I looked at her and thought uh oh....here it comes, and sure enough, she was so upset. I had to take her away and pep talk her. She came back to her self imposed performance level, but it took some doing from me I gotta say. She's so far about worldly petty things, but when it comes to herself, everything is serious business.

 

Have a good week-end Wendy Woo :) I'm glad your here. I've really enjoyed meeting you and your daughter

 

hi jody

my daughter too is a perfectionist when it comes to self, she is constantly striving to do good and needs approval to help her continue to strive. i do not feel that this makes her insecure as such, but just gives her more push to continue on this path. however, like your daughter she takes it to heart if things dont meet with approval or she feels she hasnt done enough or it isnt quite right.

a more loving and loyal child you couldnt hope to meet, but id be lying if i said she wasnt a worry, our bond is so close i feel her pain and instinctively know when something isnt right, much more than the natural mother child bond. she told me recently thru tears that she would like to be a kid like all her other friends, she is far to sensible and careing for years, and her concience wont allow her that carefree attitude (bless her ) she says she feels she must tell me everything coz if she didnt id instinctively know and ask anyway(this is a true fact)

tell me is such a bond a blessing or a curse hun, it can seem so unfair at times, but we love each other unconditionally, that will never change .

hugs wendy xxx

 

thankyou for your kindness angie hun, and you would be right about the potential she has to share and use this wonderful gift once she understands it better, but i am leaving her to make her own pace with it just now. at first it scared her,her dreams were very vivid and she feared they may come true,  she told friends before she came to me about it which i must admit hurt a lil as she has grown up with spirit here in my home, but i guess it natural for kids to confide their fears to their friends first.

we have talked openly about it but only when she comes to me about it, i dont want her to feel pressured into becoming somthing she doesnt want to be if you get my meaning. she knows she has the potential but im not sure if shes ready or willing to go that next step, so il leave that choice up to her , she knows she can come to me if and when the time is right for her and she certainly knows not to delve when she doesnt fully understand it so im not particularly concerned about it at the moment hun.

again you are right about her being an empath, she certainly does feed off others feelings but luckily she does come and talk to me, although at times i can be pretty tough on her as i have previously admitted to, but it doesnt stop her coming back (thankgod ) bless you

woo xxx

you are posing   your posr gives off a mood of a thinker in the past or in a world of your making    i think deap dowen you realy like atention  and i think you get it  you are a beautiful girl homey you like femiluar things around you  ithink your are looking for your self a little that will come  good at learning interested in learning  like a chalange playefull you have a light spirit i think you feel alone some times  this group will be good for you so stay a while   take care

i see the young girl  she is defenitly in those tenage years kind of like the terable 2s  but she is a deap thinker and doesent like to hurt eneyone her fealings run very deap she should protect her self from feeling to much of others pain she seemes to have an anergay that atracts others moods so that sometimes it isnt her emotions she is feeling it is someone elses  the eyes are just a litle said but that is not unusual for someone who feels others feelings  her both left and right eyes are very similar  they have a great depth  and determanition  a smal amount of saidness but not enough to be a real problem  with a lot of love and compasion and guidence  when i look at her lips again i see that depth  saidness  she thinks all the time there is a reconization that she is ok in the right place she needs paishants  that will help her very senisitive to others emotions she needs to learn to seperate her moods from others