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From: MSN NicknameCYLENE5523  (Original Message)Sent: 8/23/2006 4:08 AM
I don't want anyone to read this really and yet I need to write it down.  I know I need some advice on what to do next, but I am so depressed and have cried buckets, not sure advice will help.  I had no idea I would get this down about this damn foot, but I have.  It is just too much.  My insurance wouldn't pay for the orthopedic doc I was sent to Monday.  So I am still a mess.  I have a boot that goes all the way to the ankel.  This is from a few years ago when I broke my other foot.  Yeah I know, but that one was because of dizziness from my head injury, which is in control now.  So between my daughter, DR. ha, and I we felt it would be best to wear that than nothing.  So I have tried, omg, it is so hot to wear.  Just miserable.  I don't know which is worse.  I do have crutches, from before also.   I have used them, some.  There is just too much for me to fall over in the house.  Between Jake under my foot, he is worried about me too much and my other little one so close by, I just know I am going to hurt one of them with the crutches. 
Anyway, I have called every doc that is on my insurance and none can take me until next week or week after.  I have no pain medication either.  So my daughter told me to call my doc in am and let him know this he should be able to give me pain meds anyway.  I called ER also, but the can't do anything either.  I thought my insurance would give me a write over to see another doc out of area because of circumstance, they wouldn't.  I am crying and moaning because I hurt and am sick of seeing all this swelling.  No matter what it still keeps swelling more and more.  I am at a loss.  The ice is freezing and I just feel nothing is working.  Pitiful I know, sorry, just had to cry on someone's shoulder.  And who better than you guys who can understand better than anyone else.  Even though this was my fault, crazy doing, I know.  It still hurts and I am so uncomfortable with it.  Ok enough about that. 
I am going to try to do more in the room or as much as I can do while sitting here.  My foot is propped up on a stool, with pillow on top of it even.  Just I get depressed when it starts hurting so bad I have to quit and go lay down.  You know I have slept a lot also, that is what you do when you are so depressed, I know.  But will work as I can.  I am so thankful for Sassy helping me.  My other girls are going thru some really rough times also.  Sorry your management team is falling apart.  ha
Thank you so much Sassy for helping me and taking over so much.  Whatever Sassy does she does with my say so.  We have talked about every post concerning the room she posts and I have asked her to do it for me.  So don't think otherwise.
I am off to the shower.  Think it might make me feel better.  I hate crying like this, you know I do.  Thanx for listening to me everyone.  2 u all
    


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From: MSN Nicknameamar-4Sent: 8/23/2006 5:36 AM
Oh sweetie you are breaking my heart and I can't do anything to help you from over here. I have pain meds and would gladly mail it to you but it takes just as long to reach you as it does for you to get to your appointment next week. If you go to the hospital wont they commit you as you are in such pain that you must be in need of help? Even if it means you have to spend a day or two there it would be better than being at home in so much pain. If you have to stay at home I do think the boot is a good thing. That will prevent the break in sliding the bones and making you have to go through surgery as well. I don't understand that you need to keep putting ice packs on the leg. It is only when the swelling starts than you can keep the swelling down a bit by using icepacks. When it is all swullen I don't see what help it does then. What they say here is you can help swelling go down faster with having the leg in first hot (not scolding hot) then change to cold water. over and over changing betwine the two. The changing betwine the hot and cold will get the blood run faster and remove the swelling. (only use as hot and cold water that you dont injure the skin).
Depression is a natural thing to come when you feel it is all hopeless. Betwine the pain and the fact that you have to wait another week like this for a Dr to see you offcause you will get depressed. I don't understand your normal Dr or the one that told you  that you have a fracture can't write you a perscription on pain meds. Doesn't seem right to me that a Dr can tell a person "ok you have a broken leg but no you can't have any painmeds". I think I would call him one the hour every hour untill he gave in. 
I don't know what to do hun but tomorrow thursday I am meeting up with some others in a group and I will ask them if we can do a healing circle for you and all that need it. I have just joined the group but saw they did a healing circle a couple of weeks ago so I am not sure if it is a regular thing they do or just on request but I will ask I promise.
Take care my friend and just remember it will get better eventually. Things always seem dark and never ending when you are in pain and feeling helpless. One day you will realize that the pain is a little less and so on day by day you will get better. 
Love and hugs Amar   

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From: MSN Nickname1_SASSY_LASSSent: 8/23/2006 6:53 AM
HI TRUE.....SO SORRY YOU CANT GET THIS SET TILL NEXT WEEK.....WHEN I BROKE MY FOOT IT WAS ALMOST A WEEK BEFORE I KNEW SOMETHING WAS REALLY WRONG THEN SEVERAL DAYS BEFORE THEY FOUND THE HAIRLINE FRACTURE....
 
PLEASE KEEP IT ELEVATED THAT WILL HELP WITH THE SWELLING.....AND YOU HAVE TO STAY OFF IT.....BY ALL MEANS USE THE CRUTCHES.......HAVE THE FAMILY MOVE STUFF OUT OF THE WAY FOR YOU...BUT YOU SHOULDN'T BE PUTTING WEIGHT ON THAT FOOT....YOU COULD BE MAKING IT WORSE.....AS MY SONS DR TOLD HIM THE PAIN WILL DICTATE WHETHER YOU SHOULD PUT WEIGHT ON IT.....AND YOU SHOULDN'T!!!!!! PLEASE TAKE CARE.....
 

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From: MSN Nickname1_SASSY_LASSSent: 8/23/2006 6:55 AM
I DO HAVE ONE QUESTION ABOUT THIS TRUE.....WHY DIDN'T YOUR DR CALL THE ORTHPEDIC DR FOR YOU AND GET YOU IN QUICKER....ALL YO NEEDED TO DO WAS TELL HIM THAT YOU HAD TO SEE ONE OF THE OTHER ONES......THAT IS WHAT I DID WITH MY ARM AND GOT IN 2 DAYS LATER.

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From: MSN Nicknamemissysuzy2shoesSent: 8/23/2006 3:53 PM
aw cylene, im sorry you are having so much problems getting what you need.  boy, our systems arent good, they dont let you have what you need. grr it makes me mad that they wont pay for the type of doctor you need to make you well..  it just makes my blood boil!  and to not give you pain meds on top of all that omg!!!  i wish these ppl had to deal with what we did, then tell them they cant have pain meds or the care you need, boy they would be running home to their mommies crying there eyes out like babies!  i wish i lived closer so that i could be there to help you, but its abit of a commute lol.  im here for you anytime you need to vent, as you have been here for me always as well.  huggs and i hope that you get atleast some pain meds soon to help im sure that only makes things seem worse when you are in pain.. hugg love always, suzy
 

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From: MSN Nicknamegranky9Sent: 8/23/2006 6:00 PM
My dear Cylene, I wish I could be there with some of my plantain to put on your ankle. My son broke a bone in his foot and he was back on it in 3 days.  You do need to keep it elevated as much as you can. Can you do that at your computer? I hope by now the doctor has called you in a script for pain medication.  You can vent to us anytime you want. I know how  frustrating it is to be in pain and the insurance and doctors don't want to  cooperate.  Please be careful.  Love & Light to you. Cheryl 

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