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| | | From: Kallen (Original Message) | Sent: 5/2/2007 8:16 PM |
I really need to vent.. I quit my job to try to make my hubby happy and I guess I can never make him happy. today I spent 2 hours at my sisters work with her, helping her get things she couldn't lift and helped her carry her papers, etc.. Joe had the nerve to say I was with another man!!! Oh yea.. Whatever.. I wasn't home when he came home so I was out cheating on him...I would never do such a thing.. Just because his ex's did I guess he thinks I am also.. I have no idea how some marriages last for many years.. I guess they have trust, where I guess I will never have that with Joe.. I am so upset I can't type.. Thanks for listening.. |
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My sweet friend, this breaks my heart. I knew you were having problems, but honey this is too much. Why would Joe be so insecure and really stupid? There has to be a solution for this, as Cheryl said. She's been married 43 years, wow, isn't that amazing? Honey I have no wise words for you since my marriage ended also. But my husband was the cheater not me. Never even entered my mind. As I am sure it has not entered your mind either. I wish I could help. Just know I am here for you sweetie, anytime you need me.  |
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aw karen im so sorry about all this goign on with you, please remember you know you are a good person and if he cant see that then hes just dumb! you are a wonderful person, and dont you forget it.. love you tons, and always here to listen to you anytime you need to vent.. love suzy |
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Perhaps I don't know what I'm talking about but when a man seems to be jealous or distrustful of his wife isn't it just a sign of his own insecurity? I know the type also, my husband trusts me completely and I him. It is my bil that has the problem. |
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hi Karen.....this must hurt terribly hearing joe act like this but there may be another reason for this.....joe has health problems....and one of the major factors probably going through his head is....thinking he isn't worth much so he is going to lash out...thinking the worse of everyone because of the way he feels about himself....being macho is important to a man and if they think they are losing it....they think the worse about their partner that they are going to leave or have an affair so...try and have a talk with him....maybe he will open up and say what is bothering him and maybe you can reassure him again about your feelings....hope for the best.....hugs Sassy |
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Kallen I read your message and I know how hard it is to live like that. If he's jelous you can't do anything about it because it his problem. My husband was like that also. In fact he would check my milage on my car. Well that was it for me! I told him it was his problem and he had to work it out himself. I'd be there to offer support but it was his problem. He would be upset if I worked overtime. I tried to tell him it made a big difference on my check but he didn't hear me. Now he works overtime and I don't have any problems with it. It gives me more time on the computer. |
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