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From: MSN NicknameSweetpeaddlady  (Original Message)Sent: 10/31/2008 11:57 PM
Hi just wanted to  say thanks for letting me in your group . It just seem like is getting tough to handle . I have been praying for wisdom and guidance . With my life . But it seems to just get rougher . I just wish it could be easy for a little while . Instead of something always going on . I'm usually the one always looking up but this time in my life its a little to hard to do that . I pray that Jesus will show me the way to handle all the things my family is going threw . Sometimes it seems like some of us just keep going threw one thing after another no breaks . I just want to do whats right in Jesus eyes . But the human part of me is very very tire . My husband and I deal with pain all the time . But he works  everyday in pain . He is supporting me and my sister and her son . Cause her health has made her not able to return too work yet . So if you pray please pray for us . Thank you for listening to me .  Donna D


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From: MSN NicknameMoki·Sent: 11/1/2008 5:53 PM
Ohhh Donna, my heart goes out to you. It sounds like you've got alot on your shoulders, but, as others have told you, Our Heavenly Father will NOT give you more than what He knows you can carry.  He's Our Savior, our Kewl Dude, our Man of the Hour, or whatever you want to call Him.  He's always there for us --- all we have to do is talk to Him. 
I know how there are times where life just gets so tough to handle that we want to give up. Have been there plenty of times.  There have been times where I've found myself sitting on the floor, with my legs curled "Indian Style," and just sobbing my eyes out because I had no idea what I was going to do next.  Once I was able to pull myself back together I was able to think clearer and discovered there was a way to get out of or around whatever problem I had come upon.  Hon, you are not responsible for anyone in your life outside of yourself and how ever many minor childrem you may have.  Once those children reach adulthood, you don't have to be responsible for them.  I know, I know, we still try our best to help them and there's nothing wrong with that.  We just aren't supposed to continue running their lives.  I know it probably seems like it's been one thing after another lately, but sometimes that's how Our Heavenly Father works.  There's a message in the middle of all of it somewhere.  And I have a feeling you will be able to find that message too. 
All of us that belong to this group deal with pain on a 24/7 basis.  And there's alot more folks out there that go thru undescribable pain each day, but they don't have the advantage we have here.  A support group to help us over the tough spots.  Sometimes just one little word can make us feel better, but other times it takes a lot more to help us.  I totally understand when you say you want to do what's right in Jesus' eyes but the human part of you is  very tired of trying to deal with all the pain.  Well dear lady, when I get to that point, that's when I wait for a chance to be alone somewhere -- even if it's just locking myself in the bathroom -- and I start talking with the Lord.  It's amazing how he will answer me back!!  He can clear my thoughts and let me see that what I'm fussing about is really not all that bad, or see the way to take care of something, or other choices.  I live in pain 24/7 and I had to quit working. That just about killed me I think.  All I could think of was "What am I going to do???  I've got a child to raise and I can't work!!!"  Well, my son is raised and is a Minister along with working for Apple Computers.  My health still stinks to high heavens, but I've learned to deal with it and do the best I can do.  I understand you have RSD, just like Dar.  Oh my I feel for you dear lady.  I know what Dar goes thru and to think that another human has to go through that also is really hard to grasp onto.  Knowing what you and Dar go through helps me, and others, see that even though we're in alot of pain and take alot of pain meds in order to keep ourselves somewhat comfy, things could be a whole lot worse on us.  My pain can still be controlled to where it's at a level where I don't walk around with a growl on my face all day long.  And I'm very, very thankful for that!  I was 35 when all of this got started for me, and I've been in pain for alot longer than back at my 35th birthday.  This is true for alot of other folks also.  We're all too young to have to deal with this kind of stuff, but for some reason, Our Heavenly Father feels we can handle these things so it's our job to figure out how wer're going to do it.  You're going to make it through things and be able to handle the stuff in your life.  It just takes time honey.  You find yourself something you enjoy, like a craft or doing something on the computer, and you'll be surprised at the results.  Go ahead and try.
I apologize, but I really need to quit with my babbling on right now.  I've got a gazillion things to get done this morning.  You take care and many blessings to you.  If you want, you can email me at [email protected]  I will answer as soon as I possibly can.
Take care!
Moki