Suzy honey, I wish I could take this terrible sadness away for you. I am sure it must feel like you are suffering a death. Are you sure there is no way to salvage this friendship? So many times if you just get past the initial hurt or anger, which I so hope you both have, then try to save it. And after that never ever speak of the blow up again. Put that part out of your mind and go on to happy times. Have you tried to email her and tell her your friendship means so much to you and you don't want to lose it like this. You miss her and sure hope that she does you also. You are sorry for whatever you did or did not do and you want things to be better between you both. I have done that before myself. Just because of something I did that hurt a dear friends feelings and believe me there was a blow up. But I had to realize yes it could have hurt her and I needed to fix that. If it is as important as it seems, and it does to me, then you probably want to fix it. All you have to face is her saying "no way". But then you will know and can feel you did all you could and it was up to her and she refused to continue. Think about that please. I want you to feel better about all this and relieve yourself of this hurt in your heart.  U my dear FRIEND |
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