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From: MSN Nicknamemamaw-shirley  (Original Message)Sent: 5/28/2007 3:42 AM
I have been thinking about my life right up to know and that the leg has celebrated 8 months now.  Its always a depressed day when I start thinking of  my leg.  I should be happy about my leg.  I know it but is not my leg.  I did figure out how to hang up clothes.  My husband used to do it because I have nothing to hold on when I am in there.  But for some reason I thought I would try it again.  Well I managed.  That is another thing that I thought I coulldnt do and did it.  Now I can do all the same things I did before  I lost my leg.  That was the last thing I had to do .  then why am I depressed?  Everyone  thinks I am fine and things are back to normal.  They  don't see that I am different now and I am never going to be normal whatever that is.  I wish I had someone I could talk to that might really understand  what I am going through.  Its sad to be alone.

 

 

 



 


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From: MSN Nickname1_RISI_JSent: 5/28/2007 4:17 AM
shirley....i know i havent lost my leg but i used to hear my uncle talk about his legs that he lost....at that time i listened but didn't understand.....
 
with my disease i may not be able to get new knees if the muscles arent any good or if my body rejects the healing and i could end up in wheel chair at some point....the thought scares the hell out of me....
 
my point is i understand what he talked about a lot about what he couldn't do, remembering all the things most of us take for granted with legs.....
 
any time you want to talk you can email me if you like and pour it all out.... [email protected] take care...you have done more than most would in your position.....and you are learning to adjust your life....we all have adjustments we have to do when we have illness or other health problems.....i am not the same person i was 10 years ago....in some ways i am better though......Sassy

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From: MSN NicknameGA___PEACH1Sent: 5/28/2007 1:55 PM

I CAN UNDRERSTAND TO A POINT WHAT U MEAN.I HAVE POLIO IN ONE LEG. CANT DO A LOT OF THINGS I USE TO.
BUT I LOOK AT IT THIS WAY..I AM A LIVE ..HAVE FRIENDS AND FAIMLY. THIS IS ME.IF SOME PPL DONT LIKE IT WELL THATS TOO BAD..
JUST TRY NOT TO LET THINGS GET TO U..GET U DOWN ..IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN...


JAN..PEACH

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From: MSN NicknameKathleen1137Sent: 5/28/2007 4:36 PM
your not alone shirely i know i don,t have room to talk but i have a i have two kinds of pain myofasoius and fivebro my left foot has been instreem amout of pain (not sure who i can see as of foot dr at the moment but i think its time for surgery i get up and i can very walk on it,i try and quit pain meds im sick of relaying on them i guess im trying to say its not allways good to have a leg if u can,t use it cause that where im at i handle alot of pain but this is too much,in a way i hope this makes u feel a little better.your in my toughts and preyers hugs kat [email protected] is my e mail if u need some company.

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From: MSN Nicknamegranky9Sent: 5/28/2007 5:24 PM
Shirley, You surely put up a good front.  Even though I haven't lost a limb, I have lost some of my brain activity which keeps me from doing things I used to do. I can't even drive a car now which makes me so sad. Nor can I write anything legible. It frustrates me to no end.  I have constant pain in my head where they went in to do surgery for the  brain aneurysm I had which is what gave me the stroke. My bones were so soft they didn't grow back properly and I have to be extra careful not to hit my  head near the site because it is  like the opening in a new born babies head. So I can empathize with you.  I'm sure there are other members in here who have lost the use of  limbs and their brain activity who feel the same way.  I know you have to be depressed because of the loss of your limb but remember you are not alone.

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