Hi Femfree, you wrote
"I'm shaking my head wondering why on earth you would talk to him anyway. He's full of threats, BS, craziness. Just hang up on him."
This is a great article precisely addressing this phenomena. (and you don't have to buy a book).
http://drjoecarver.makeswebsites.com/clients/49355/File/love_and_stockholm_syndrome.html |