Hi - I couldn't read your story;  it shows "deleted by author".  I would be happy to listen and talk with you.  My daughter is 21 and married to a narcisstic sociopath.  She has gone from being ADD  and ODD to the latest diagnosis of ADD, OCD and bipolar. (Do any of the people have a clue?)  She is adopted and has caused a chasm between my husband and I. Neither of our aproaches to dealing with the problem was at all successful.