Hi LillyRose. I wish I had some words of comfort for you dealing with your daughter. I was thinking, when reading your message, that #3 husband is in for a rude shock whenhe finally learns the truth and she will have gone through these men destroying their lives, your life and everyone else - mostly herself in the process.
I wish I had the words you need and I hope that you find some peace of mind knowing you are not alone.
Hugs, Welcome
femfree