Dancer Thats the predictable and wierd thing about these kids. Theres a book about borderline personality disorder...I think it's called something like: "I hate you, Don't go"...or something like that. And it explains how these people really resent/hate everyone. They push you away, but then they panic and fight to get you back in their good graces. It's a way of life for them. They usually tear up someone (us), then move on to the next victim (we are then out of site, out of mind for now). This is what worries me about my daughter..now that she's divorced, she's working 24/7 (2 jobs) and has completely given over care of the 2 children to...whomever. The poor kids. I think they are out of her mind for now. It's like she can't do two things at once. She cannot "integrate" her life..it's hard to explain.Yes...they burn many bridges, then they use their charm to get back in good graces, then they think to themselves..."again, victory". And the cycle begins. It's SICK. And my daughter did the same thing. She was going to a college, she would come over and trash EVERY person there and "what losers they are" "sluts", "whores", blah, blah.....WELL...those are the VERY SAME people that she has plastered all over her public webpage as her best of friends as soon as her and I had the fall-out!!! Unbelievable!! d.j. |