Hello Litlbit,
Welcome to our group, although I am sorry you have need to be here...
As for coping with your N daughter.... unfortunately, as many here will tell you, the only way to keep your emotional and physical health is to have No Contact.
I can relate to your situation and worrying about your grandchildren, but the sad thing is your daughter will use those little ones to manipulate you and have you bending over backwards for her. It's sad but true...the only way to truly cope is to develop tough skin...if you can't go no contact, keep your emotions out of any dealings with your daughter..... N's see any sign of emotion as a weakness and something to exploit. Don't own her problems, they typically project everything on those around them. And they can be very convincing when they want something from you...keep your emotions locked up when dealing with her.
And hang in there, you are NOT alone...we are all walking this path you are on...
I send you peace
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