Hiya LitlBit,
I know it hurts and you have doubts and second guess yourself...it's not easy...
It's good that you haven't contacted her, you are taking the control back and setting healthy boundaries. . if you can't do no contact, set your boundaries and make it clear that any detours by your daughter from those boundaries and you will walk away/hang up/ask her to leave, etc. Tiis gives you control and you set out the rules for the relationship.
No mother should have to tolerate abuse by their child, and it is abuse what these N's/P's put us through.
Hang in there, stay strong and know that we are all here if you need to talk.
I send you peace
Dancer |
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