Hi Litlbit,
Silver and Twink are right, you are not abandoning your daughter... yes you are a Mum, but first and foremost you are a person and you were not put on this earth to be abused by anyone, least of all one of your own children.
Because my youngest son is special needs, I have had to take steps in order to protect him should anything happen to me. My daughter has on many occasions told people that when I die, she will have my youngest son put in an institution , buy out my oldest son's share of the house and everything will be hers. That is so not going to happen. After everything that happened in March, I had to scramble to make sure that my youngest son would be protected from this little parasite. Beneficiaries had to be changed, and a new will drawn up, trustee's and guardians named so that neither her or my oldest can cause any problems. It's sad when you think about it....what is even sadder is these two kids have no clue just what a beautiful, caring person their brother really is...they can't see past his disabilities... as I told my oldest earlier this year before I went on my trip to hell..."I am beginning to wonder which one of you kids is really the handicapped one..."
Your research and reading will empower you...knowledge is power.... do what you have to do for YOU to be healthy, both physically and emotionally.
I send you peace
Dancer |