Hi Emmey,
My X husband was a N, and I suffered terriably when I was with him.My daughters saw the way he treated me, and I have to say they tuned to be just as he is. None of us are in Contact. i do however beleive to leave the door open in your heart for you daughter, but like me. I had to have boundries, and they are not to let them in (the door) unless they treat me with respect, and kindness as I gave to them.
Thanks for writing, I am happy I am not alone.
Hugs,
Eveningstar