Hi blue. Maybe you should ask yourself why your daughter would choose to be in an abusive relationship?. Our kids don't have feelings like we do, they use people.....so why would she choose to be with someone who was nasty to her? And..its her choice. None of us want our kids to be in abusive relationships.we all want our kids to be happy and grow into mature and meaningful relationships with other people.

 

We have to accept that  all relationships with our kids are probably doomed anyway.

 

P here has an abusive BF. He lies and manipulates..he is a horrible person and isn't worth speaking to.yet I feel her qualities are far worse. Ps BF lied to her a couple of years ago and she got someone else to beat the BF to a pulp with a baseball bat..now they are back together again...