Dear Natoyhee;
No responses for along time, have not been on this site for quite a while. I found the link from Dr. Liane Leeland, tried to e-mail her my very long story but came back as a "failure". I want to order her book,,,,as you know it is about our daughters being like the P father not my son. My daughter, 15 at the time trumped up charges against me to CPS (child protective services), also denied saying all those things and said that they (CPS) said it all. Since they are known for railroading people and making up false allegations, I believed her. They were wanting to "terminate jurisdiction" and give custody to the childrens' father who lives 3500 miles away in the Northeast...where we are from. He is an abuser and I divorced him///he is a Psychopath....been on Dr. Sam's site off and on for couple of years now. Once my daughter was back with her father, even though it was only to be for a few weeks in summer, CPS pulled a fast one and wanted to give him custody. My daughter called everyday or text messaged me, my 12 yr son was with her also.....he was the one I was really upset about. Anyway, both children complained that father ignored them, he worked over an hour away, hardly any food in the house, lived with some trailer trash woman that they claimed they wanted to kill. After all, he owed me 70,000 in back child support. Children claimed that he had NO pictures of them in his mobile home. He lived in a very rural area, my daughter claimed that her father called her a tramp and degraded her...as he had me....finally it got violent and he hit my daughter and threw son across the floor...police became involved, but took fathers side. Could be the ole boys network up there and they certainly have different laws on child abuse while they nailed me to the cross for pulling her hair and scratching her arm.
To sum it up...I hired private lawyer in CA to ge tthem back. Before I had one of these court appointed idiots, all part of the corruptacy of the Children's court with the DCSF (CPS) at the helm.
They were brought back on Sept 7, 2007, school had already started. They were put in foster homes until another court date Nov. 5 (my daughter's 16th BD). The judge let them return to the maternal GM house (my mother), where we had all been living for 4 years. The catch was that I had to be out of the house, there is an active R/O against me.....my supposed PAID lawyer had done nothing to to address this. However.....within 2 weeks my daughter has resorted to her former ways and treating me as before...wants nothing to do with me now that she is back with her friends and her school. SHe is also giving my mother a very hard time......more later////I cannot even see my son. I am sure that my daughter is a full blown SOCIOPATH. In fact these courts only allow a certain length of time for re-unification services...I could have my parental right terminated because of her.......I WILL never ever forgive her, and I know what she is.....please anyone....how do I get my son. He has been speaking out now that he is older and cannot stand her either, they both see a therapist......could not be with son for Christmas either, it is killing both of us.
Thank you,
Vera206