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From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231  (Original Message)Sent: 9/12/2008 7:43 AM
Remember the school bully? Perhaps you were one yourself or knew one.
 
Should we pity the school bully?
ignore him?
 


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From: MSN Nicknamekiwimum49erSent: 9/12/2008 9:19 AM
It's only when one is an adult and reflects on the days gone by that one can pity the bully in lots of ways. They are the losers, and often end up in more trouble.

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From: MSN Nicknamejacki3Sent: 9/12/2008 3:03 PM
i remember the school bully..it was me...lol...mostly towards my good-2-shoe cousin...she tattled 2 her mom everything is ever did, or didn't do..and of course her mom told mine...so i got even w/ her...in 7 th grade i told her how ppl have babies..i said a boy has a hot dog, and girls have buns, he sticks his hot dog in your bun...she was horrified...and that nite she had hotdogs for dinner, and she thru up all over the table....i got hell for my mother, but it was worth it..

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From: MSN NicknameCC20010Sent: 9/12/2008 4:16 PM
I remember the first bully I had to go to school with.She was mentally-handicapped so I guess to protect herself,she turned BULLY.She was always getting into fights & she made my life miserable.No one taught me how to fight & Mom laid down the FIGHTING isn't LADYLIKE rule.

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From: mstrebks1Sent: 9/12/2008 7:52 PM
I guess I was lucky. Never really had a bully in school. In h.s. it was the in crowd or the others.

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From: MSN NicknameAngelbear1231Sent: 9/12/2008 9:19 PM
My schools had a school bully or two. I was never bothered by one but saw enough happening. I chose to ignore the bully so it wouldn't give me any grief. As an adult I see that it probably was the best choice considering I was just a kid. I learned that the bullys I knew of had such horrible home life issues and I did feel bad for them. They became "bullies" as a defense mechanism.  I always wondered how they turned out.
 
 
 
 

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From: MSN NicknameKSG111Sent: 9/12/2008 9:55 PM
I think we've all been acosted by a bully one way or the other. My X could say the cruelest things to keep me toeing the line ... You're stupid , you're fat, you're lazy and on and on.
And yes I think the bullies of the world usually stem from their own insecurties.
Karen

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From: MSN NicknameaaaaahadairSent: 9/14/2008 4:37 PM
I agree with Karen, most bullies are insecure.

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From: MSN NicknameabsolutelystumpedSent: 9/14/2008 5:23 PM
 In  the early grades, before 6th, a bully poked his finger into my chest.
I did not have developed breasts, but to this day I cringe at the thought of being poked in the breast.

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From: southern girlSent: 9/15/2008 2:20 AM
That's funny!  I used to get paid to beat up bullies.  So , I guess I would not ignore them or pity them.  I do not like bullies to this very day!

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From: MSN NicknameGracie-n-Toris-MomSent: 9/15/2008 8:30 PM
beat him up!!!
 
LOL
Karen

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From: MSN Nicknamecheryllorraine0Sent: 9/24/2008 8:02 PM
I taught my kids to defend themselfs not to start it.... I think a bully is one who has insecruties and does not know how to show any other feelings but to hurt others....

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