Now normally i wouldnt rant and rave about things in this group as i have my own personal comm (me as only menber where i rant and rave) where i can say what i want and stick things into perspective. But i thought awww bo**ox you can see one of me rants .....
I enjoy this group for its fun side .... if i wanted to go to a group for support with my problems i would go and join one.
I belong to about 15 msn communities (used to be about 25 but ive cut back) for various different reasons.
My own 2 personal groups , one for me self and one me and sunny share for slushy stuff .... .i am a manager of a very succesful group and we have rules and an unwritten understanding of common deciency on there.
I belong to various different "gay" groups as well and a "bitching" site where i can muck about and swear (if i want to).
Now out of these groups every member knows when to shut up and stop bugging other members. Be they new members or old members.
GFGT is a great group, you accept me for who i am , i will tell you the truth as i see it , i dont not hide myself and ive always been truthful to myself and to others and you can accept my own downfalls and scence of humor, or not as the case may be.
The thing that gets me is the gall of some ppl to paint me and some other members as being nasty and spiteful, shame really cos some messaged were deleted , and if they were left it prolly would have been read in a totally different way...... thing is the writen word may be seen in many different ways...... what some ppl class as having a giggle , others may see it as having a go. And only reading one sidded posts do not paint the whole picture.
Im am as a whole a very polite person, i hate bad manners in any form (ask Tracey ).... If i wanted to pour out all my troubles in here i wouldnt cos i am also a very private person, this is why i have my own writing site where i can stick them down.
As many of you have read my posts about members (now in not naming then in this post as i dont want to be painted as being a bitch again) flooding the boards and you will have read the reason that i feel it kills a site ..... and trust me ive seen sites die cos the same person posts all the time , which is their perogitive.... im not like that and i wouldnt subject anyone to my rantings every minute of every day. I also hate people shouting on board as well as i find that rude as well (but yet again thats my hang up not yours).
You may class me as a bitch in all of this and going over the same old ground but i want to get this of my chest and expalin ............
You think of me what you like , ive gone through enough shit in my life to worry what anyone thinks of me , ive gone through an abusive marriage, i`m a single gay parent, i dont have a cosy life , me and me kids struggle.
I come on here for laughs and friendship, and trust me ive found some bloody tereffic mates on here and to thoes Ladies i love you all for your honestly and the fact you accept me for me.
To the unknown names who dont know me for me and only read what i post in a bad light , maybe you should take time to get to know my scence of humor.... if you cant be bothered then thats down to you.
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I also hear what your saying. I leave my worries behind when i come in here, If things go tits up in my real world, I don't come in here, I don't like to burden anyone, and I'm quite private myself. I lost it one day and Noeleen was there for me 
I can also see your point about the one sided posts, we all know you well enough babe, no worries...nasty and spiteful could'nt
And (((hugs))) if your feelings have been hurt.
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