Hi Margaret, It is Margaret, right?
First, let me tell you how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your daughter. You sound very strong regarding her death.
Are you talking about Death Certificates or obituaries? I don't have Daddy's D.C. but I do have his obituary. He died in Decatur, Illinois. His obituary says, "Inurnment will be in Arlington National Cemetery."
If you are talking about Death Certificates, many say "Removal To," and that would mean the body was removed to a Crematory. Some say "burial" and that would probably be the cemetery. Maybe there are now different forms for each.
This link shows the procedures, not sure if it will answer your question. I did not read it all.