Oh Sis I remember those feeling so well! It is amazing, even after all these years have past, I can still recall that empty feeling inside that the only thing that touched it was the pain of those days and weeks after.
But I can tell you, better yet I can REMIND you, that this will pass. The time will come that you will realize, OMG....and entire day passed and you didnt think about him! Then sometime later.....OMG....a couple weeks have gone by!
It isnt easy by any stretch of the mind Sis.....I know that. But it will pass, and with each day that goes by, you are one day stronger. One day wiser. One day closer to whatever destiny has in store for you life.
I wish, like I know my family and friends did for me so many years ago, that there were some magic words of wisdom, some word that would just take all the pain away even for a moment, but of course there aren't.
All I have to offer is my love, my understanding and my support being sent all these miles to you.
Remember, no matter how it feels, you are NOT alone in this journey. Many have traveled before you and while cannot change the path, they can help to make it a bit less rocky for you.
All My Love and Angels coming your way sis,
Your Been There Done That Sis,
Lady