Hi Shirley, I know what you are going thru. I went thru it with my Grandpa though. He was very angry at first. And then got scared that he was going to die. he went thru a new treatment and the doctors said that he had a better chance with this treatment. We found out the day after Christmas that he still had cancer and that there was nothing they could do. He then started trying to accept it. I know that when we found out that he still had cancer that he would yell at Grandma and me. Like Risi said that we hurt the ones we are the closest to. What I finally learned was to just let him know I cared about him and that I loved him. I know that before Grandpa died that he needed physical touch. I know it is hard. Let me know if you need to talk. I am willing to help as much as I can. LacyLou |