hi shirley....you are both scared for different reasons at this point....and there is truth to the words "we hurt the ones we love the most" when there is trouble..i am sure things seem like they are spinning out of control but you have to keep your head and be strong for your hubbie now....men dont handle things as good as we do this i know from experience....we find strength when we think we cant so hang in there....as far as normal....is life normal?....i think not....life is just individualized and each of us has to deal with whatever is handed us. |