Hey Shirley you go off somewhere girl and you scream and holler all you want...and get mad even....and then after you've done that, and you are relaxed within yourself, you then will be able to take what your hubby dishes out, because at the moment he is just going through the emotions, and anger is the first one and he doens't mean to be like this with you, because he is going to need you just so much very soon, as he goes through the scarey part...Now you my friend as the others have said you are going to need to be very strong for the 2 of you's, its hard, but like it was said, us woman in this sort of thing are the stronger ones...But with prayer my dear friend and with all the support you have here, you can do it, and you will get over this obstacle...My thoughts and prayers are with you both...Hugs...Joan |