I call upon you for your guidance and wisdom to assist me with a very difficult situation. I have been married to my hubby for 5 years, i have a daughter he has a daughter and we have a boy and girl together.
In those 5 years my husbands parents have made my life a living hell, they have called me every name under the sun and said some dispicable things about me and even called my daughter names. When i was carring our son his mother called my house and said she hoped me and my b...... died, and his father said they wanted nothing to do with the b...... i was carring. I tried to hold my tongue for hubby's sake, and afterwards they act as if nothing is wrong. My main concern is that they take everything they can to do with his eldest daughter but want nothing to do with our other two children. they took his daughter abroad in march and brought gifts back for her elder brother that has nothing to do with them, yet my kids got nothing. My husband has let them many times come to our house for to take his daughter to spend time with her while our kids are left crying why cant they go. The only time they see our kids is if my husband takes them the 6 miles to see them, yet they drive 34 miles round trip to see his eldest daughter, or to take ink,pencils you name it. When my hubby was hospitalized last week they did'nt even phone to see if i was ok or the kids ok, but they travelled down to pick up the eldest because her dad could'nt manage yet failed to mention she was at thier house.
I know they don't want anything to do with my kids, they make no effort to be part of thier lives, but as the children are getting older they're asking, if there sister is at the grandparents why can't they go. Or why is gran & granda only taking there sister and not them.
I feel, if they see one child they should see them all ,diffrences should'nt be made. I feel if they don't want to see the 2 kids they don't get to see any of them. Hubby say it's not fair that the oldest misses out on seeing them because they don't want to see the other two. As for my oldest daughter they don't even know her name really. My hubby and i fight about this constantly as i sometimes feel he betrays the kids by letting thier sister go and leaves them behind.
I would never keep loving grandparents from the grandchildren but i want to protect my children from being rejected. I mean on occassion we've been told never to bring the children back. I've had to change my phone number for the abuse i was receiving.
They have been like this with his other partners who have left him, they still ask him to come home. My eldest daughter sees her father and granparents every week for the past 11 yrs without any bother on both sides, her granparents are better to my children than there own.
DO YOU THINK IM WRONG FROM KEEPING THEM FROM SEEING MY BABIES
CATH
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