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| | From:  Añgelspirit2 (Original Message) | Sent: 10/9/2006 12:01 AM |
Before anyone reads this and gets worried... don't... it will probably sound worse than it is. My biggest wish... I wish I could be strong enough. I wish I could be strong enough to carry on in this relationship, it feels so right, but it may not work... and if it doesn't it will be my fault. I can't be strong enough for him. I keep crying and getting upset, over stupid things. I wish that when we talk tomorrow, everything will be sorted. I know we both want to make the effort, I just hope it's enough. I wish relationships were easy, like the fairytales. I wish I was secure enough in myself to stop crying, to be able to talk about things, to not keep pushing him away. |
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One thing is for sure. It won't be 'your fault' if the relationship doesn't work. Relationships consist of two people interacting with each other. There is no fault or blame on either side when things go wrong. It's just about two souls who connect for as long as they need to. Remember, Angel, you are a child of God and so is everyone else.  Bless you. |
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Angel  When we go into a relationship we don't always know the outcome. We take a chance.Bringing each others qualities and experience to it. For example , When you bake a cake.You have a recipe. If you follow it , it will come out like it is in the picture, perfect and yummy.But if you forget to put an ingredient in , it may taste differently or adding something a little extra makes it more special. So it is hard when problems occur in relationships. We don't always know if we are saying or doing what the other person wants.You think they want a cuddle when sometimes they don't .Then harsh words are said without meaning it. We take things to heart by someone's words or body language..That's why it is important to speak the truth to each other then misunderstandings might not happen. Also Angel , just be yourself, he should accept you for who you are, a loving ,caring  person that shows their emotion.So let love shine through.  love and light Honeyrosaxx |
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We go through our life learning. I have been married for almost 28 years and I am still learning. We are as different as chalk and cheese. I am tactile, he is not. So there are problems. If he puts up with mine then I can sure put up with his. So far I have only packed my suitcase half a dozen times. He calls my spiritualism "mumbo jumbo" and I call him "The Incredible Sulk" but none of us are perfect - we just have to make adjustments. I am emotional like you and he is not and I am sure sometimes he despairs of me - but hey - he will cry over Lassie films but pretends he has something in his eye. Variety is the spice of life. Do your best and just carry on being you as he obviously loves you for that. Good luck, Stinky |
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