Hi Gal, great to hear from ya,,,do hope that you are feeling better each day,,please take care,,,,,here is Maquas message----You had a life with him, and he took advantage of you in that life. He was your son in that life, and he was not a good son.

thank you sorry it took so long to get back kids downloaded a virus and it took me forever to re program and clean computer but I finaly got it.

 I had a feeling he was my son before we are so alike and I know him so well and no matter what he does or how mad I am at him I always forgive him as much as I would love to hate him I cant and he still has not learned his lesson he still takes advantage of people and he still has a bad attitude but this time he has very bad parents hes been abused all his life even now his parents beat him hes 25 yrs old. hes a good person at heart but he has mood swings him and my daughter are always arguing especialy on sundays they have even tried counseling and they still fight right now shes living back home with me because of him and his temper they have 2 kids and one on the way due in april. sorry to ask but how was he not a good son just wondering if it has to do with his personality now.and if his guides have any ideas how I can help him to straighten up his attitude I tell my daughter to just get rid of him but shes been told they are soul mates and will have 5 kids together and she loves him to much to give up on him yet

thank you

oh ps Im doing good now I have lost 54 lbs and the dr cleared me to go back to the gym to start toning everthing up Im so jiggly now and everything I eat makes me sick  but it only lasts for about 10 min then im fine still get tired easy but I push it a little more each day

nanaleah

Hello Nanaleah,,I just found your message, and I am so happy for ya,,,,HOW ABOUT THOSE 54 POUNDS??????? That is wonderful!!!!  I will check with Maqua today and see what info he has for ya.  I do hope the nausia will leave soon, and you can enjoy your small meals. Sooo glad that you are going to start to the gym,,that will help in a lot of ways,,,just stay happy and stay strong, and determined.

Blessings to ya dear one,,Delois

Hi Gal, here is what Maqua said------He was a mean person, and he hit you, and left you as an old woman to take care of yourself. He was to repay in this life, as a son in law. He is trying, but as you know, he is having problems. He is not doing what he is suppose to do. He needs to get anger in control. He needs to make progress with the daughter, and children, then you. About his anger, that is where he needs counseling.

thank you Delois and Maqua this helps me understand him better and to see why my daughter wont dump him

I am so glad that the info helped you to understand. There are many reasons that we must stay in a bad relationship,,most of them are reasons that we dont know,,and we think we are weak or insecure, or some other reason that we blame on ourself,,when the reason we do not leave, is because our guides will not let us,,there is a reason and purpose for each relationship.  I hope you and your daughter can work through the reason and purpose, and I hope he can get the help that he needs. Blessings dear one,,Delois