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Tiels N Conures : adjusting and training sun conure
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From: MSN Nicknamehawkins573  (Original Message)Sent: 3/14/2007 9:47 PM
Okay, I  need help. When we brought Frodo home on 2/16 I tried to insist on trying to handle him. From here I was told to give him room and he would adjust. It has been right at a month and I read to him daily. I also give him treats from my hand which he gladly takes. I use the travel cage for when I clean his cage (I basically take everything excet his perch out and he reluctantly gets in it) but he continues to shy away from me holding him. Monday I put my hand in the travel cage and he let me hold him (for all of 2 seconds) and then got down. I really would like to hold him. I am jealous of the post talking about others birds wanting to spend time with them letting them hold them. I know it is an improvement that he doesn't bit as hard (mostly just mouthing now) but I really want to hold him!!!! Am I just expecting to much too soon??? OR should I be worried about the past life he had????
 
Misty


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From: MSN NicknameScots101Sent: 3/14/2007 10:30 PM
Misty I can imagine how much you want to cuddle and hold Frodo and it will happen...
Some of us have had to wait an awful long time while others tell of their birds coming around rather quickly.
Does he come to the cage bars to visit with you when you talk to him? Does he know his "step up's? and obey when you ask him to step up for you?
Can you clean his cage while he remains inside? I'm sure he'll scoot away from you but as long as he doesn't flay about and get hurt, let him stay on his perch and watch what you're doing while talking to him and maybe offering him a treat.
It hasn't been a month yet Misty since he came to stay with you.... is this the only bird you have? if it is he will possibly take a bit longer to come around since he won't have the opportunity of seeing you interacting with another bird.... Too2

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From: MSN Nicknamehawkins573Sent: 3/15/2007 10:56 AM
Too2,

Frodo is the only bird I have. Yes when I talk to him he gets as close as he can to me but if I put my hand up to the out side of the cage he moves about half the length of the gage over (he use to move the whole length over). As for step up he does not at all (I can't seem to get closes enoght to began training this comand.)
Misty

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From: MSN NicknameCopperlyneSent: 3/15/2007 1:31 PM
My Danny (cockatiel) was in the house almost a year before he would voluntarilly come over just to chat. He spent 10 years in an abusive home. He needed to learn to trust.
Mr P (sun) was 3 months before he was social.
Sailor just got here. He had a year of trauma in the rescue that he came from. He got the physical attention that he needed, got the food, got time out of the cage, but with all the other rescued birds, just couldn't get much more.
The place he was before, was a hoarding situation. For as much as he was loved, he had to share that love with dozens of other parrots. I have to show him that there is not only love and acceptance here, but that he is a part of it, not just an onlooker yet again.
 
Give him the time he needs. Let him be the sweetheart that he is hiding behind those feathers. A shy two year old human child takes time to adjust to new situations, and you have a perpetual one.
It will happen if you let him be himself, and not put expectations on his feathered shoulders.  

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From: MSN Nicknamehawkins573Sent: 3/16/2007 12:45 AM
Okay so I just need to be more pacient????? It is so hard but I'll just continue what i am doing....

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From: MSN NicknameScots101Sent: 3/16/2007 1:21 AM
hawkins573,  it is going to be very important that the "step up's" lessons begin and for those it looks like you'll have to get a small stick or even an extra perch...a dowel if you have one works equally good.
All pet birds need to learn to step up on to a stick...(it could save their life one day)...
 
the web is chock a block of training ideas, put in the key words "bird training" or "bird step up" and you'll find a lifetime of ideas and you pick what suits you best...
 

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