Vera

 

I know what you are saying and understand every word

 

My P is dead

 

Be careful what you wish for - having your P dead is not what it might seem to be

 

When my P died I thought it was over but 22 years later - it's not

 

Of course - I don't grieve all the time - hardly ever now - but death stops the P from all that day-to-day hell presents

 

It changes though - to a different kind of hell

 

I wish this was not true - but it is

 

And I really do understand your situation if it's unique - and I know it's unique, and no one can tell what another person feels, knows, needs etc

 

But be careful what you wish for

 

Please

 

Sparky

 

Of course - if your P dies - I will still be here for you

 

 

Hi Vera.

 

I don't know how old your daughter is, but perhaps you can get some help from 'grandmother' here?  Maybe.

 

I hate to think of this abusive child and what she might do to an elderly person.  I'm hoping you can keep close tabs on this situation.

 

As the house is your mother's she is the one who must take action. I wish I had better news. But I don't know what to say here.