Hello,

I started to write earlier today, but my mind had too many thoughts running through it that I became overwhelmed with what to say.  Instead, I went outside and did some hard labor yardwork; it really helped! It's a LONG story but I will give you all just a general idea.  I'm with someone who is a single mom and has 16 year old daughter who fits all of the criteria of an acute P and acute N. The mom is "D" and the daughter is "K".  I  fear for "D" safety. Over the past five years K has been in 4 mental institutions, juvey, kicked out two schools for carrying a knife, arrested once, caught shoplifting and more recently has started physically attacking her mom.

A couple of weeks ago D tried to discipline K and took K's cell phone away. The kid went into a RAGE and attacked her mom, punching her in the ribs and got her into some kind of a choke hold twice that D was going unconsious. D has never hit or abused K. The only thing that stoped K was that D's brother heard D yelling for K to stop. He came downstairs in the middle of this and pulled K off her mom.

K turned on him and elbowed him in the ear, his ex marine reflex kicked in and I decked her to the floor. It all happened so fast! This is a guy wouldn't hurt a fly and he felt so bad. He couldn't hear out of his ear for three days.  Of course, K has played it to the hilt, telling her friends that my uncle hit her and broke her jaw and all kind of crap. D is now afraid to discipline K. She is constantly watching her back and locks herself in her room at night. K tells her mom I can put you down if I want to and laughs. K does what she wants to and if D trys to ask questions or tells her to be home by a certain time K just goes off on her or blows her off. 

K is bipolar and ADHD also. It has always been difficult to get her to take her meds and recently K has been refusing to take them at all. She is like a time bomb. Right now K is in the second week of at home therophy, three counclors coming to house twice a week. She already has them snowed! The therophist, today actually suggested that they separate and D to live somewhere else until school starts back.

What's WRONG with this picture!? I was livied when D told me this on the phone today! That's why I did the yardwork.

Can someone please tell me why everyone is accommondateing this wicked evil child?  DFCS knows what is going on.  This is soooooo hard to deal with, seeing someone I love go through so much Hell. D says she will call 911 if K attacks her again.. It is only a matter of time. I just hope and pray K doesn't seriously hurt or kill her mom.  There's tons more, but I pretty sure by now you all get the idea.

Thanks for letting me vent

Serenityprayer03