Hi. Pleased to meet you.
I would say 14 was a turning point in my own circumstances.....I wondered just what had gone wrong cos it felt like I had been hit by a train. I wondered if this was just an extreme form of teenage/hormonal behaviour and hoped if we hung on in there it would pass......but it didn't and if I thought it was bad at 14, it declined dramatically by the time P kid was 20.
Before puberty, life was interesting but not bad.....after puberty it became a nightmare.