Hi stilweeding, completely agree about family and friends not having a clue and I've found it's impossible to make them see what is in front of them.It's just not "normal" to have a child with no feelings or conscience so it must be the parents fault!!!!! They are so narrow minded and judgemental. It makes me so angry at times but then I think my anger is wasted on them and one day they will learn the truth no matter how long it takes----well I would like to think so.

zin