Hi and welcome cenders. What an awful position to find yourself in. It is NOT your fault that HE acted in the way he did and had you known what was going on, I'm sure you wouldn't have allowed it to continue. We can all only work with the situation we see ourselves in. We can't stop what we don't know is happening. I hope you'll find peace and comfort here. We all know how well they deceive and trick people. It certainly ISN'T you who has the problem, regardless of what others may say.