Hi angells,
I'm was glad to read your post...it's so sad that little ones are used as pawns. I have two granddaughters, the oldest will be 4 on the 27th of this month...and there isn't a day I don't wonder how she is doing. The youngest one will be a year old in December, the last time I saw her was when she was three weeks old. I don't even have any pictures of her and I wonder how she is, she must be crawling now, soon to be walking. But because of my daughter and her neverending need from drama and chaos, I am alienated from them. Goodness only knows what the oldest has been told about me, she was always so excited to come to my home.
I have no idea where they are living now, although being this is a small town, I have been told they moved west...last information I got was they'd moved to the province of Alberta. I could legally pursue visitation but I don't want the girls put in the position of being in the middle, I know my son and his wife would make it almost impossible to have any type of relationship with them.... and not knowing the lies my daughter has filled their heads with...I refuse to take any action that will get them started up again or give them the satisfaction of knowing just how much their actions hurt me.
Sometimes it's best to let sleeping dogs lie...they are quiet now and I don't want to get them started up again and have them destroy the peace I have found.
Dancer |